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Leaving an Abusive Relationship: 5 Steps to Safety

Leaving an Abusive Relationship: 5 Steps to Safety

 This article discusses domestic violence, coercive control, stalking, and abuse. Please read at your own pace and skip any sections that feel overwhelming. Any therapist in the business of working with the most personal, intimate, and difficult issues in a...

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Perimenopause and Mental Health: What No One Tells You

Perimenopause and Mental Health: What No One Tells You

September is Perimenopause Awareness Month, which makes it a good time to talk about something that often gets left out of the conversation: perimenopause and mental health. We hear a lot about menopauseโ€™s hot flashes, night sweats, irregular periods, and trouble...

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When Your Body Remembers: The Rest You Keep Postponing

When Your Body Remembers: The Rest You Keep Postponing

Have you ever noticed that even in those moments when life finally slows down, your body doesn't? You finish the work project, your children are asleep, the house is quiet, and yet your shoulders remain tense. Your mind keeps racing. Sleep doesn't come easily. Your...

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What Does Health at Every Size (HAES) Mean?

What Does Health at Every Size (HAES) Mean?

Summertime means less covering up, swimsuits, beach timeโ€ฆand for a lot of folks, this is hard. Because Iโ€™m guessing no one needs to tell you that our culture is obsessed with health, wellness, and fitness. โ€œFitโ€ is often code for thin or skinny. Body size has been an...

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Healing from Religious or High Control Group Trauma

Healing from Religious or High Control Group Trauma

Belonging, connecting, and interacting are intrinsic to humans. We find not only meaning, but survival in our ability to connect. We belong to families, both chosen and inherited, in our friend groups, through our workplaces, in clubs, civic organizations, sports...

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A Few Thoughts on Grieving ๐Ÿ€ย 

A Few Thoughts on Grieving ๐Ÿ€ย 

By Galena Vaysberg Grief โ€“ after the death of a loved one or pet โ€“ comes in many forms. Non death losses, like divorce and estrangement, break ups, job loss, miscarriage or medical diagnosis, count too. These are often referred to as ambiguous losses. ...

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After You Leave: The Emotional Aftermath No One Warns You About

After You Leave: The Emotional Aftermath No One Warns You About

You left a relationship that, at some level, you knew wasnโ€™t healthy for you. Maybe there was emotional manipulation. Maybe it was the constant instability. Or maybe it was the pattern of being pulled close and then pushed away. You spent hours questioning your own...

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How Trauma Shows Up in High-Functioning Adults

How Trauma Shows Up in High-Functioning Adults

You meet your responsibilities. You show up for others. You are productive, reliable, and capable. From the outside, your life may look stable or even successful. And yet, internally, something feels off. You may feel constantly on edge, emotionally disconnected, or...

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