We store our experiences not only in our minds, but also within our bodies. Traumatic events can imprint themselves on our physical sensations, leading to lingering effects that impact our physical and mental well-being. Addressing these deep-seated traumas requires a...
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Should I see a Pre-Licensed Therapist? Or a Licensed Therapist?
In Florida, mental health counselors can be Graduate Interns, Registered Interns (RMHCI or RCSWI), or fully Licensed (LMHC, LMFT or LCSW). Are you confused by all these letters and titles? How do you know what to look for in a...
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder: Utilizing Exposure and Response Prevention
What is OCD? Obsessive-compulsive Disorder (OCD) is characterized by experiencing cycles of unwanted intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors (compulsions) that can cause a significant amount of distress for an individual (International OCD Foundation,...
What We’re Really Talking About (Coercive Control)
October is "Domestic Violence" Awareness Month. I put "domestic violence" in quotation marks because that's an outdated term that emphasizes the physical violence, and misleads us to think it's only happening in domesticity -- such as in a marriage. There's a better...
How to Spot — and Handle — a Sociopath
This post was originally published on March 2, 2014. Thousands of comments later, I'm still getting emails and calls about it weekly. Given the interest in sociopathy in the news today, I decided to re-publish it here.Ted Bundy. Jeffrey Dahlmer. Danny Rolling. Jim...
Black Lives Matter. Period.
Some thoughts on the last few weeks. Iโll make the writing short and the recommendations long for further learning, because my thoughts aren't needed here; we need to listen to the voices of people of color. Trauma needs a witness, and I witness with my feelings...
Ithakaโฆand a turn in the journey.
โDearly beloved, we have gathered here today to get through this thing called Life.โ โ Prince Iโm shifting gears from the 3-a-week blogs on poems/pods/books. Iโll keep sharing what Iโm leaning into going forwardโฆ.just not in this same 3x/week form. ...
Book Rec Friday 5/8/20
I think I should rename this regular Friday post: Memoir Recommendation Friday. Hereโs another one: More Myself: A Journey, by Alicia Keys. Singer and songwriter Alicia Keys takes us through her life from childhood...
Podcast Wednesday 5/6/20
The Goop Podcast Special Episode, Interview with Terry Real โWhy We Need to Take Our Partners Onโ, April 22, 2020 I donโt even know where to start with this podcast, because it is so full of truth bombs and great nuggets that if I were to list all of them, Iโd be...









