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What We’re Really Talking About (Coercive Control)

What We’re Really Talking About (Coercive Control)

October is "Domestic Violence" Awareness Month. I put "domestic violence" in quotation marks because that's an outdated term that emphasizes the physical violence, and misleads us to think it's only happening in domesticity -- such as in a marriage. There's a better...

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How to Spot — and Handle — a Sociopath

How to Spot — and Handle — a Sociopath

This post was originally published on March 2, 2014. Thousands of comments later, I'm still getting emails and calls about it weekly. Given the interest in sociopathy in the news today, I decided to re-publish it here.Ted Bundy. Jeffrey Dahlmer. Danny Rolling. Jim...

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Black Lives Matter. Period.

Black Lives Matter. Period.

Some thoughts on the last few weeks. Iโ€™ll make the writing short and the recommendations long for further learning, because my thoughts aren't needed here; we need to listen to the voices of people of color. Trauma needs a witness, and I witness with my feelings...

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Ithakaโ€ฆand a turn in the journey.

Ithakaโ€ฆand a turn in the journey.

โ€œDearly beloved, we have gathered here today to get through this thing called Life.โ€  โ€” Prince Iโ€™m shifting gears from the 3-a-week blogs on poems/pods/books. Iโ€™ll keep sharing what Iโ€™m leaning into going forwardโ€ฆ.just not in this same 3x/week form. ...

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Book Rec Friday 5/8/20

Book Rec Friday 5/8/20

I think I should rename this regular Friday post: Memoir Recommendation Friday.  Hereโ€™s another one: More Myself: A Journey, by Alicia Keys.  Singer and songwriter Alicia Keys takes us through her life from childhood...

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Podcast Wednesday 5/6/20

Podcast Wednesday 5/6/20

The Goop Podcast Special Episode, Interview with Terry Real โ€œWhy We Need to Take Our Partners Onโ€, April 22, 2020 I donโ€™t even know where to start with this podcast, because it is so full of truth bombs and great nuggets that if I were to list all of them, Iโ€™d be...

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